MomsInHawaii.com is meant to be a gathering place where moms can find conversations, articles and other information of interest to mothers. Because we are a community, an online ‘ohana, we ask that all participants treat each other with respect. You know how we always say in Hawaii, “Wow, this island is so small!” and how we are taught to be respectful even of strangers because we often have friends and even family in common? It’s like that online too. So please, when you are posting on our website, choose your words carefully, just as you would in a polite conversation. Don’t write anything you wouldn’t say directly to the face of a person you just met. We do not allow personal attacks, unduly negative or obscene language, overt business solicitations, lies, libel or slander. Not only is such material inappropriate here, but it could get you and/or your posts deleted from our site.